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For me, I think the thirties is a chaotic decade for many of us. There are so many life events and important decisions packed into these 10 years. This is the decade where many of us buy our first home, get married, have our first child (or second, or third…), start savings for kids’ education, try to build retirement savings for ourselves, worry about our parents who are nearing or already in their retirement, and work hard to advance our careers. There are so many important events in this decade that it could be dizzying, or worse, overwhelming.
“40 percent of all home buyers in 2002 were first-time buyers. Their average age was 32”
A lot of us don’t buy our first home until we are in our thirties First-time home buying is a big financial decision. I was lucky enough to have bought my first home when I was 25. Lucky, because I was able to get in while the price was low enough for it to be affordable with my income. In the past 10 years, we have seen explosive growth in the housing market and home sales value. This was fueled partly by easy mortgage loans, subsequently blew up as the sub-prime meltdown of 2007 — which is still going strong in 2008.
Marriage is an important life event. Most people get married in their late 20s and early 30s. I was 31 and my wife was 25 when we got married. All things aside, marriage is probably the most important financial decision in our lifetime — and I am not talking about how much we spend for the wedding.
I believe that couples with compatible financial philosophies often have long and happy marriages. A supportive spouse not only makes you happy, but also greatly contributes to your success — financially or otherwise. On the other hand, did you know that money is the most cited reason for divorce? In general, divorce makes bad financial situation worse. I know a few guys who went through a divorce, and they are still paying for it to this day.
Our son was born last December. This was a life-changing event for us — by far, the highlight of this decade. Now we have something more important than anything else in life, including our lives. For me, everything becomes a great balancing act to give my family everything they deserve while I am still trying to do things like saving money for his education, saving money for our retirement, and keeping my career moving forward.
Also we now have more questions than ever:
The birth of our son comes with a new financial concern about saving money for his education expenses. College is becoming more expensive every year. To get a head start, we started a 529 college savings fund for our son last October and we are planning to save about $250,000 in total. We believe this amount is enough to comfortably put him through 4 years of college at a good public school.
Of course, we will teach him to be financially responsible — i.e., live frugally, work while he’s in school, learn the time value of money, investing, etc. The nice thing about 529 is that if he manages to spend less than what we saved for him, he could use it for his graduate school, or we could transfer it to his children.
When it comes to saving money for retirement, it’s good to start saving and investing early. If you don’t believe me, look at the difference a decade makes when it comes to investing for retirement. I am fortunate I started my retirement savings and investing program since my early 20s. However, it’s not too late to start for people in their thirties — there are still about 30 years left to go. Whatever you do, don’t delay it any longer!
People who are new to the retirement savings game may wonder where to put their money. Here’s the general rule of thumb that I use:
Regarding, saving money for retirement versus saving money for college, I believe saving for college is secondary to saving for retirement. I won’t discuss it here, because I think this is also worth an article on its own.
My parents are nearing retirement age. In fact, they are old enough to start collecting their Social Security if they choose to. Parents of my friends and brother-in-law (my sister’s husband) are already in their retirement. So on top of everything else, many people in their thirties are also worrying about their parents. Personally, these are the concerns that I have:
For other people, they may be concerned about:
Last but not least is our career. I think this is the decade that makes, or breaks, my career. Right now, I am a first-level manager inside a large corporation. I believe that if I can’t work my way to middle-level management by the time I get to my late 30s, my career would simply stall.
Although the thought of not making it into the middle-level management rank sadden me, it wouldn’t upset me as much as it would have a couple of years ago. My priorities have changed over the past years. Do I still want to advance my career and do the best I could? Definitely yes, but here are other factors that I now consider more important. For instance, instead of investing all of my energy into my career, I would rather…
I hope you can see why the thirties is so chaotic, yet one of the most rewarding and important decade. I hope you enjoyed this article. Here’s are the other articles in the Money Matters for All Ages series: